{"id":511,"date":"2006-06-07T12:09:00","date_gmt":"2006-06-07T12:09:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/?p=511"},"modified":"2006-06-07T12:09:00","modified_gmt":"2006-06-07T12:09:00","slug":"the-church-the-choice-the-coincidences","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/2006\/06\/07\/the-church-the-choice-the-coincidences\/","title":{"rendered":"The church, the choice, the coincidences"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Yesterday was just so jam-packed that even with two posts, I didn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t have a chance to reflect on everything worth saying. Consider this the spill-over post.<\/p>\n<p>Thank you for your votes on how we should spend our summer vacation. Ya know, living my life according to Interweb plebiscite has a certain appeal. I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122ll be consulting you for input on our life decisions much more frequently.<\/p>\n<p>In the end, Beloved and I decided to skip the road trip to St Thomas and TtFTE in July. I am, quite frankly, hugely relieved. If anybody out there would like a deal on four great tickets to see the sold-out Thomas the Tank <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ecrm5700.org\/dowt2006\/dowt_main.html\">live in St Thomas <\/a>(20 minutes from London) on July 22, drop me a note.<\/p>\n<p>Yesterday was also a day of weird coincidences and convergences. Some funny, some profound, and some a little sad. For instance, you have to laugh that the calendar date for the first time I wandered back in to a church since (thoughtful pause, head scratching\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6) well, in at least a couple of years, was 6-6-6. Snicker.<\/p>\n<p>Poor Tristan. In my ongoing crash course on God for preschoolers, I was explaining to him that we were going to the church, and the church is where you talk to God, and that we were going to talk to the priest about making Tristan and Simon a part of God\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s family. Then we left him with my parents while we went to the \u00e2\u20ac\u02dchow to have your child baptized\u00e2\u20ac\u2122 seminar. Poor Tristan wasted no time telling my mother that he liked his old family, and didn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t want a new one. Oops!<\/p>\n<p>So then we\u00e2\u20ac\u2122re driving to the <s>church<\/s> high school, and you know what song is on the radio? \u00e2\u20ac\u02dcCounting Blue Cars\u00e2\u20ac\u2122 by Dishwalla, with this lyric:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>And ask many questions<br \/>Like children often do<br \/>We said,tell me all your thoughts on god?<br \/>cause I would really like to meet her.<br \/>And ask her why were who we are.<br \/>Tell me all your thoughts on god,<br \/>Cause I am on my way to see her.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>And you know what the strangest part is? By the end of the night, I was feeling pretty keen about the whole Catholic thing. I was relieved to see that for the boys\u00e2\u20ac\u2122 baptism, we will be in the company of lots of other lazy and \/ or indecisive parents of toddlers, preschoolers and even a seven-year old \u00e2\u20ac\u201c in fact, not a mewling newborn in the lot.<\/p>\n<p>The priest, Father John, was one of those kindly, soft sorts of fellows to whom you really do want to entrust your spiritual upbringing. I got to thinking maybe we\u00e2\u20ac\u2122d even go to church every now and then, and maybe I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122d even (gasp!) sign up for one of their committees. I left the <s>church<\/s> high school feeling warm and fuzzy, but I just about fell out of my shoes when Beloved turned to me and said, \u00e2\u20ac\u02dcYou know, maybe I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122ll take my confirmation sacrament one of these days.\u00e2\u20ac\u2122 You think I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m cynical about the church? I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m PollyAnna compared to him.<\/p>\n<p>And then I wake up today and I hear that yesterday the Catholic Church issued yet another <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ctv.ca\/servlet\/ArticleNews\/story\/CTVNews\/20060606\/vatican_contraception_060606\/20060606?hub=Health\">sweeping condemnation<\/a> of abortion, birth control, same sex marriage and \u00e2\u20ac\u00a6 reproductive technologies like artificial insemination and IVF. More weird convergences \u00e2\u20ac\u201c day one of my frostie mock cycle happens the same day I think that maybe I will give the church another try or at least an open mind, and is also the day the Church issues this closed-minded, archaic and out-of-touch epistle.<\/p>\n<p>All I can do is shake my head and shrug my shoulders.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yesterday was just so jam-packed that even with two posts, I didn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t have a chance to reflect on everything worth saying. Consider this the spill-over post. Thank you for your votes on how we should spend our summer vacation. Ya know, living my life according to Interweb plebiscite has a certain appeal. I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122ll be consulting &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/2006\/06\/07\/the-church-the-choice-the-coincidences\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;The church, the choice, the coincidences&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-511","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/511","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=511"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/511\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=511"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=511"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=511"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}