{"id":9684,"date":"2014-08-12T07:00:25","date_gmt":"2014-08-12T12:00:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/?p=9684"},"modified":"2014-08-12T07:04:18","modified_gmt":"2014-08-12T12:04:18","slug":"thinking-about-inking","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/2014\/08\/12\/thinking-about-inking\/","title":{"rendered":"Thinking about inking"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"drop_cap\">I<\/span> was never particularly interested in getting a tattoo. &#8220;Why would you permanently emboss yourself with artwork that you wouldn&#8217;t hang on your walls?&#8221; was my all-purpose response to the very idea. It&#8217;s not that I was morally opposed to tattoos or even disliked the idea. I just couldn&#8217;t imagine committing to a single bit of art forever &#8211; which may, now that I think about it, be a generalized extension of my inability to commit to framed photographs as well.<\/p>\n<p>However, one day last year it occurred to me pretty much out of the blue that *if* I were to ever get a tattoo, it would be a tattoo of a shooting star. Nay, a tattoo of THREE shooting stars. Now THAT is something I would love for the rest of my life,  and something that will still be as meaningful to me in 30 years as it is today. <\/p>\n<p>In a manner completely atypical for a woman who thinks instant gratification is far too long to wait, I have pondered and toyed with the idea for more than a year. Finally, the occasion of my 45th birthday seemed like the right time to finally acquiesce to impulse &#8211; even if that impulse was more than a year in the percolating.<\/p>\n<p>Well, I didn&#8217;t quite manage to get the tattoo in time for my birthday earlier this month, but I do have an appointment coming up. I could have had it done by now, but apparently it&#8217;s recommended that you wait three to four weeks (WEEKS!) before submerging your tattoo in a bath or swimming pool or allowing it to be exposed to sunlight, and that would put a serious crimp in my end-of-summer enjoyment of our pool membership and trips to the beach. Looking at the forecast from now through Labour Day, though, I&#8217;m not sure I&#8217;ll be missing much pool-worthy weather if I do hold off, so I keep waffling on whether to wait or go ahead.<\/p>\n<p>Funny, though, that in the same way everyone seems to have a white car when you buy a white car, I am seeing a LOT of chatter about tattoos on the web lately. I thought this post was pretty funny: <a href=\"http:\/\/theuglyvolvo.com\/why-you-should-never-ever-ever-get-a-tattoo-but-having-a-baby-is-fine\/\">Why You Should Never Ever Get a Tattoo (But Having a Baby is Fine)<\/a>, but it did make me wonder &#8211; do people really still think like this?  If the 40-something moms I know are getting tatts, how taboo can they be? I figured tattoos these days are about as risqu\u00c3\u00a9 as double-pierced ears &#8211; and yet more than one person has asked me if I&#8217;ll be getting the tattoo in a place that will be easily concealed at work. Hell no! If I&#8217;m going to bother, I&#8217;m going to show that baby off as much as I can! Mind you, I&#8217;m not talking about a full sleeve or something that wraps from my neck to my hipbone. At most, it wouldn&#8217;t be larger than a post-it note, probably on my ankle but I did seriously contemplate the inside of my wrist for greater visibility.<\/p>\n<p>And no, I&#8217;m not sharing my tattoo design just yet. I need to save that for a big bloggy reveal! \ud83d\ude09 <\/p>\n<p>Inevitably, since I started talking about getting one, the boys (well, let&#8217;s be honest, the middle boy, my teenager in waiting) has asked if he can get one. Ha, I laughed at him. Of course not! Talk to me when you&#8217;re 45, babycakes. Although he then changed directions and started talking about an earring, which I am pretty much fine with &#8211; but that&#8217;s a conversation for another day.<\/p>\n<p>So talk to me about tattoos, bloggy peeps. Are tattoos still risqu\u00c3\u00a9 when the moms at the schoolyard pickup are sharing tattoo aftercare tips? Or do they still send out a negative impression in your opinion? Are tattoos mainstream, or do they still make people judgy? Do you have one? How and why did you choose your design? Do you have any regrets about having &#8211; or not having &#8211; one? You won&#8217;t talk me into or out of getting one, but I&#8217;m fascinated that there are still such divergent opinions out there on this!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I was never particularly interested in getting a tattoo. &#8220;Why would you permanently emboss yourself with artwork that you wouldn&#8217;t hang on your walls?&#8221; was my all-purpose response to the very idea. It&#8217;s not that I was morally opposed to tattoos or even disliked the idea. I just couldn&#8217;t imagine committing to a single bit &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/2014\/08\/12\/thinking-about-inking\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Thinking about inking&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[15],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9684","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-it-is-all-about-me"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9684","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9684"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9684\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9703,"href":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9684\/revisions\/9703"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9684"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9684"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9684"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}