{"id":1858,"date":"2009-03-13T07:04:56","date_gmt":"2009-03-13T12:04:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/?p=1858"},"modified":"2009-03-13T07:21:29","modified_gmt":"2009-03-13T12:21:29","slug":"my-breasts-are-not-so-evil-after-all","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/2009\/03\/13\/my-breasts-are-not-so-evil-after-all\/","title":{"rendered":"The end of an era; or, my breasts are not so evil after all"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s been a good long time since I wrote about my breasts, hasn&#8217;t it?  Vexatious things have been behaving themselves lately, but surely we&#8217;re overdue to complain about them.  Ironically, I just glanced at the &#8220;one year ago today&#8221; widget down there in the sidebar, and one year ago today I was just finding out that my milk wasn&#8217;t enough to sustain Lucas on its own, and that we&#8217;d have to start supplementing.  I wasn&#8217;t averse to supplementing, but I was worried that if there were problems with my milk to begin with that I wouldn&#8217;t be able to keep nursing for as long as I had wanted to.  At the time, I really just wanted to make it to the twelve-month mark.  I&#8217;d almost made it that far with Tristan, and went a little beyond it with Simon.<\/p>\n<p>Guess what?  One year later, and we&#8217;re still doing it!  So I&#8217;m putting it out here on the interwebs for all future searchers to see:  you can start supplementing your newborn with a bottle or two of formula and still keep nursing for a year or more!  I so desperately wanted someone to reassure me of that a year ago.  We started with one bottle of formula a day and that wasn&#8217;t enough so we moved to two when he was around six weeks old.  I continued nursing Lucas three to four times a day in addition to the formula, dropping one feed in January and one in February.  We switched the formula over to milk last month when he turned one year old, and I still nurse him just before he goes to bed.<\/p>\n<p>I think, though, that it&#8217;s just about time for us to give that up.  Sigh.  He only nurses for a couple of minutes, usually not more than five.  I&#8217;m sure he&#8217;s not getting much from it, but I&#8217;m so sad about ending this chapter in my life that I don&#8217;t want to stop.  Poor Lucas, can&#8217;t even grow up without dealing with his mother&#8217;s emotional baggage!<\/p>\n<p>Think maybe we can carry on this little five-minute interlude of babyness for another month or two?  How did you know it was time to wean your wee one?  Did circumstance dictate that you had to stop, or did you just drift slowly away from it?  To be honest, I can&#8217;t even remember the final time I nursed either of the other boys, so it couldn&#8217;t have traumatized me too much.  Tell me your weaning story, and pass the kleenex &#8212; he may be almost walking and have a vocabulary of six words already, but I&#8217;m just not ready to end this part of his babyness!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s been a good long time since I wrote about my breasts, hasn&#8217;t it? Vexatious things have been behaving themselves lately, but surely we&#8217;re overdue to complain about them. Ironically, I just glanced at the &#8220;one year ago today&#8221; widget down there in the sidebar, and one year ago today I was just finding out &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/2009\/03\/13\/my-breasts-are-not-so-evil-after-all\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;The end of an era; or, my breasts are not so evil after all&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[67],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1858","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-baby-days"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1858","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1858"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1858\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1860,"href":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1858\/revisions\/1860"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1858"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1858"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1858"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}