{"id":12326,"date":"2017-08-07T08:11:15","date_gmt":"2017-08-07T13:11:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/?p=12326"},"modified":"2017-08-07T08:11:15","modified_gmt":"2017-08-07T13:11:15","slug":"tomato-soup","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/2017\/08\/07\/tomato-soup\/","title":{"rendered":"Tomato soup"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"drop_cap\">S<\/span>ometimes, I have an anecdote that I want to share like I did back in the day, but I don&#8217;t have a photo to go with it. Despite having my own stock library of nearly 6,000 images on Flickr alone, sometimes there just isn&#8217;t a photo that goes with the story.<\/p>\n<p>And sometimes, I have photos that I like that don&#8217;t really have a story.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m really sort of appalled that it took me this long to marry the two of them together.<\/p>\n<p>I like this photo, of a red fishing shack full of lobster traps. We discovered it wandering around the fishing village of French River, in Prince Edward Island.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/Lobster-traps-500x500.jpg\" alt=\"image by Ottawa family photographer Danielle Donders\" width=\"500\" height=\"500\" class=\"frame aligncenter size-medium wp-image-12327\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When Tristan first stayed in the house by himself, I used to make him text me when he arrived and about every hour. That lasted about a month before we both got tired of it. I was less strict when Simon started staying by himself, partly because I had calmed down a bit, and partly because by then Tristan was usually also home with him. They were both quizzed thoroughly on a long line of do&#8217;s and don&#8217;ts &#8212; don&#8217;t answer the door, don&#8217;t tell people you are home alone, don&#8217;t use the stove. Okay, maybe they were all don&#8217;ts.<\/p>\n<p>This summer being home on vacation, Lucas learned how to prepare a tin of tomato soup for lunch. A few days later, Beloved and I returned from running a few errands together, having left the three boys with the elders more or less in charge, and saw the soup-rimmed pot and bowl in the sink. We looked at each other, at the intact stove, at the opened tin and dirty pot, and flinched. <\/p>\n<p>As happens so often with the third child, the rules slipped a little bit. Maybe because he wasn&#8217;t staying home entirely by himself, or maybe just because he&#8217;s the third child and that&#8217;s the way it is with third children, Lucas didn&#8217;t get the lecture about not using the stove. It&#8217;s only the second or third time he&#8217;s ever used the stove. He&#8217;s not the most attentive creature when it comes to details. Or safety. Somehow, though, he&#8217;d remembered to turn off the burner, and to avoid putting anything flammable near the stove, and even put the dirty dishes in the sink.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, everything was fine. I&#8217;ve got three more grey hairs, though.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes, I have an anecdote that I want to share like I did back in the day, but I don&#8217;t have a photo to go with it. Despite having my own stock library of nearly 6,000 images on Flickr alone, sometimes there just isn&#8217;t a photo that goes with the story. And sometimes, I have &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/2017\/08\/07\/tomato-soup\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Tomato soup&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11,10,75],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12326","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-ah-me-boys","category-mothering-without-a-licence","category-project-365"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12326","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12326"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12326\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12329,"href":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12326\/revisions\/12329"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12326"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12326"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/danigirl.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12326"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}