Comments on: A gift to make the world a better place http://danigirl.ca/blog/2008/12/27/a-gift-to-make-the-world-a-better-place/ Tue, 22 May 2012 01:08:39 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc By: Jonathan http://danigirl.ca/blog/2008/12/27/a-gift-to-make-the-world-a-better-place/comment-page-1/#comment-60037 Jonathan Thu, 22 Jan 2009 20:36:13 +0000 http://danigirl.ca/blog/?p=1461#comment-60037 Hi, I recently read your friend Kerry's post on Mr. Niiya. I am 25 now, I guess I had him as a grade 6 along time ago. I always think back to his class with the most fond and happy of memories. For some reason I had a dream about his class last night and about him. Intuition? Who knows. I would love to email him and send him my best. I am not on facebook, though this contemplated me to join. Hi,

I recently read your friend Kerry’s post on Mr. Niiya.
I am 25 now, I guess I had him as a grade 6 along time ago. I always think back to his class with the most fond and happy of memories.

For some reason I had a dream about his class last night and about him. Intuition? Who knows.
I would love to email him and send him my best.
I am not on facebook, though this contemplated me to join.

]]> By: Marianne http://danigirl.ca/blog/2008/12/27/a-gift-to-make-the-world-a-better-place/comment-page-1/#comment-58627 Marianne Tue, 30 Dec 2008 13:42:39 +0000 http://danigirl.ca/blog/?p=1461#comment-58627 I love your idea of a donation as a teacher gift. What a fabulous idea! As a teacher myself I would have been extremely touched to know that a Canadian child in need recieved a backpack of supplies. A giftcard to Canada Helps is also a fabulous idea. I'm past the deadline, but wanted to mention that the nurses in the Special Care Nursery at eth Queensway-Carleton Hospital made a difference in my life when my daughter was born 4 weeks premature last year and stayed in the SCN for 11 days. Not only did they take excellent care of her, they offered us lots of support during that stressful time and plenty of parenting and baby care advice that has helped us through her first year. I love your idea of a donation as a teacher gift. What a fabulous idea! As a teacher myself I would have been extremely touched to know that a Canadian child in need recieved a backpack of supplies. A giftcard to Canada Helps is also a fabulous idea.

I’m past the deadline, but wanted to mention that the nurses in the Special Care Nursery at eth Queensway-Carleton Hospital made a difference in my life when my daughter was born 4 weeks premature last year and stayed in the SCN for 11 days. Not only did they take excellent care of her, they offered us lots of support during that stressful time and plenty of parenting and baby care advice that has helped us through her first year.

]]> By: Cheryl http://danigirl.ca/blog/2008/12/27/a-gift-to-make-the-world-a-better-place/comment-page-1/#comment-58600 Cheryl Tue, 30 Dec 2008 02:40:29 +0000 http://danigirl.ca/blog/?p=1461#comment-58600 Yesterday in the grocery store a stranger offered me one of those clear plastic bags that you put produce in. He had prepared it for his own use (opening them can be so difficult!) and when I was selecting a tomato for my elderly dad, he just asked me if I needed the bag. It seems like such a small thing, but that guy really rocked me. I had my hands full shepherding Dad through the store because Dad has some dementia but still tries to be independent. That man's kindness made a big difference in my day. Thanks for introducing me to CanadaHelps. Yesterday in the grocery store a stranger offered me one of those clear plastic bags that you put produce in. He had prepared it for his own use (opening them can be so difficult!) and when I was selecting a tomato for my elderly dad, he just asked me if I needed the bag. It seems like such a small thing, but that guy really rocked me. I had my hands full shepherding Dad through the store because Dad has some dementia but still tries to be independent. That man’s kindness made a big difference in my day. Thanks for introducing me to CanadaHelps.

]]> By: Kerry http://danigirl.ca/blog/2008/12/27/a-gift-to-make-the-world-a-better-place/comment-page-1/#comment-58582 Kerry Mon, 29 Dec 2008 17:56:05 +0000 http://danigirl.ca/blog/?p=1461#comment-58582 hey Dani! I'd like to give a shout out to Mr Niiya. He was my grade 6 teacher in montreal. Mr Niiya taught thousands of kids in his career, but he made a huge impact on both my brother and I. David and I were recent immigrants and we both had serious british accents. Mr Niiya taught my brother our first year here, and me the next. He had a total knack for teaching misfits - especially people who learn better by doing than by reading. I'm still in touch with him via facebook and email. He's retired and not having the best retirement - his wife recently passed, and he had to have a double bypass and a knee replacement. I'd actually like to do the donation in his name, if I'm the successful candidate (totally sounds like a job interview, doesn't it?). I'm packing my office today. Can you stand it? hey Dani! I’d like to give a shout out to Mr Niiya. He was my grade 6 teacher in montreal. Mr Niiya taught thousands of kids in his career, but he made a huge impact on both my brother and I. David and I were recent immigrants and we both had serious british accents. Mr Niiya taught my brother our first year here, and me the next. He had a total knack for teaching misfits – especially people who learn better by doing than by reading. I’m still in touch with him via facebook and email. He’s retired and not having the best retirement – his wife recently passed, and he had to have a double bypass and a knee replacement. I’d actually like to do the donation in his name, if I’m the successful candidate (totally sounds like a job interview, doesn’t it?).

I’m packing my office today. Can you stand it?

]]> By: Lee http://danigirl.ca/blog/2008/12/27/a-gift-to-make-the-world-a-better-place/comment-page-1/#comment-58577 Lee Mon, 29 Dec 2008 13:09:19 +0000 http://danigirl.ca/blog/?p=1461#comment-58577 CanadaHelps is a wonderful organization! I'd like to give a little shout out to the kindness of strangers. While Christmas shopping (and trying to navigate stroller, packages etc through mall and store doors) on more than one occassion the kindness of strangers (opening or holding doors for me) made my day. If that was you, thank you again! CanadaHelps is a wonderful organization!

I’d like to give a little shout out to the kindness of strangers. While Christmas shopping (and trying to navigate stroller, packages etc through mall and store doors) on more than one occassion the kindness of strangers (opening or holding doors for me) made my day.

If that was you, thank you again!

]]> By: Shan http://danigirl.ca/blog/2008/12/27/a-gift-to-make-the-world-a-better-place/comment-page-1/#comment-58555 Shan Sun, 28 Dec 2008 22:44:57 +0000 http://danigirl.ca/blog/?p=1461#comment-58555 My family makes a difference in my life everyday. The family I was born into and the family I married into. No matter what happens I know they are always there for me. Just to know you have that kind of support system to back you up is an incredible feeling. This is a great giveaway. Thanks. My family makes a difference in my life everyday. The family I was born into and the family I married into. No matter what happens I know they are always there for me. Just to know you have that kind of support system to back you up is an incredible feeling. This is a great giveaway. Thanks.

]]> By: mrsgryphon http://danigirl.ca/blog/2008/12/27/a-gift-to-make-the-world-a-better-place/comment-page-1/#comment-58548 mrsgryphon Sun, 28 Dec 2008 17:33:14 +0000 http://danigirl.ca/blog/?p=1461#comment-58548 Just this past week, my friend Christine and I had a great conversation about friendships and how to deal with complicated relationships. Her words really helped me figure out how to handle a certain person in my life (a mutual friend of ours) and I think I can move forward into the new year with some new perspective. Re: There is a fantastci non-profit in our community that is listed on CanadaHelps.org... Kokopelli Choir Association is a group of 3 youth choirs in Edmonton that have travelled to Africa on tour twice in the past 4.5 years, and have set out to support two of the choir organizations that they met there. They've developed chorister exchange programs which brings African choristers here to live and learn and sing with Kokopelli choristers for 3 - 6 months and sending Canadian choristers to live, work and sing in Namibia for 4 months at a time. They also do a ton of fundraising to help support the operating costs of these fantastic programs in Africa since there is just such a tiny fraction of public funding for arts organizations available in Namibia or South Africa. One year, they somehow managed to raise $150,000 in private donations to bring 40 members of the Namibian choir Mascato to tour Western Canada. An amazing opportunity for all involved, and a home-grown grass roots charity where every dollar raised goes directly to the kids and the choirs. You can hear some of Kokopelli's music at www.kokopellichoir.com and read about their projects there, too!! Just this past week, my friend Christine and I had a great conversation about friendships and how to deal with complicated relationships. Her words really helped me figure out how to handle a certain person in my life (a mutual friend of ours) and I think I can move forward into the new year with some new perspective.

Re: There is a fantastci non-profit in our community that is listed on CanadaHelps.org… Kokopelli Choir Association is a group of 3 youth choirs in Edmonton that have travelled to Africa on tour twice in the past 4.5 years, and have set out to support two of the choir organizations that they met there. They’ve developed chorister exchange programs which brings African choristers here to live and learn and sing with Kokopelli choristers for 3 – 6 months and sending Canadian choristers to live, work and sing in Namibia for 4 months at a time. They also do a ton of fundraising to help support the operating costs of these fantastic programs in Africa since there is just such a tiny fraction of public funding for arts organizations available in Namibia or South Africa. One year, they somehow managed to raise $150,000 in private donations to bring 40 members of the Namibian choir Mascato to tour Western Canada. An amazing opportunity for all involved, and a home-grown grass roots charity where every dollar raised goes directly to the kids and the choirs. You can hear some of Kokopelli’s music at http://www.kokopellichoir.com and read about their projects there, too!!

]]> By: Mad http://danigirl.ca/blog/2008/12/27/a-gift-to-make-the-world-a-better-place/comment-page-1/#comment-58529 Mad Sun, 28 Dec 2008 00:16:03 +0000 http://danigirl.ca/blog/?p=1461#comment-58529 Yes. I like Canadahelps.org too. It makes it all so convenient. Yes. I like Canadahelps.org too. It makes it all so convenient.

]]> By: hw http://danigirl.ca/blog/2008/12/27/a-gift-to-make-the-world-a-better-place/comment-page-1/#comment-58521 hw Sat, 27 Dec 2008 19:08:02 +0000 http://danigirl.ca/blog/?p=1461#comment-58521 Around the age of 10, I started to feel pretty crappy about myself. My parents had divorced, my mother was a single parent taking care of myself and my disabled brother, I had to move schools, had no friends and dressed differently from all my classmates. My self-esteem was in the pits. My mother tried to enroll me in various activities to boost my self-confidence. Modeling lessons, judo and finally dance at the age of 12. Dancing (tap and jazz) was the first thing I had enjoyed in years, but my crappy sense of self was holding me back. I was afraid to try anything new, especially a dance move where I might not be as good as the other kids or get made fun of. So I constantly said, "I can't," and defeated myself using my words without any ounce of effort. My dance teacher, Merlene, was incredibly patient with me. She kept on encouraging me and coaxing me to try until I finally would and master a dance step. This continued my entire first year of dance - the tug of war of the "I can't" with her wish to inspire me to dance. To share her passion for dance with each of her students. I was only there for one hour a week, but each week I just keep up with the "I can'ts." About halfway through the year she finally got completely exasperated with my most recent bout of the "I can'ts" and turned to me and said, "Holly, there's no such thing as I can't. There is only I won't. And from this moment forward, the words I can't will never be uttered in my studio again. You can go stand in the hallway until you can say I can or at least I will try." I stood in silence finally having got the message she'd been trying to deliver all year. There was only one thing worse in my 12-year-old-brain than not being able to say "I can't." It was not to be given the opportunity to say "I can't" if I were to have to stand alone not dancing in the hallway. It wasn't easy, and I did a lot of tongue biting, but finally vanquished "I can't" from my vocabulary and slowly began to like myself and regained a sense of self-worth. My thanks goes to Merlene Samuel. For allowing me to pass on the wisdom of "there's not such thing as I can't" to my own children and all the kids I work with, and for giving me the self-esteem to become a pretty great grown-up. PS - I love Canadahelps.org and the charities of my choice would be the Ten Oaks Project (runs summer camps for kids with LGBTQ parents) and Bruce House (offers housing and support for people living with HIV/AIDS). Around the age of 10, I started to feel pretty crappy about myself. My parents had divorced, my mother was a single parent taking care of myself and my disabled brother, I had to move schools, had no friends and dressed differently from all my classmates. My self-esteem was in the pits. My mother tried to enroll me in various activities to boost my self-confidence. Modeling lessons, judo and finally dance at the age of 12.

Dancing (tap and jazz) was the first thing I had enjoyed in years, but my crappy sense of self was holding me back. I was afraid to try anything new, especially a dance move where I might not be as good as the other kids or get made fun of. So I constantly said, “I can’t,” and defeated myself using my words without any ounce of effort.

My dance teacher, Merlene, was incredibly patient with me. She kept on encouraging me and coaxing me to try until I finally would and master a dance step. This continued my entire first year of dance – the tug of war of the “I can’t” with her wish to inspire me to dance. To share her passion for dance with each of her students. I was only there for one hour a week, but each week I just keep up with the “I can’ts.”

About halfway through the year she finally got completely exasperated with my most recent bout of the “I can’ts” and turned to me and said, “Holly, there’s no such thing as I can’t. There is only I won’t. And from this moment forward, the words I can’t will never be uttered in my studio again. You can go stand in the hallway until you can say I can or at least I will try.”

I stood in silence finally having got the message she’d been trying to deliver all year. There was only one thing worse in my 12-year-old-brain than not being able to say “I can’t.” It was not to be given the opportunity to say “I can’t” if I were to have to stand alone not dancing in the hallway.

It wasn’t easy, and I did a lot of tongue biting, but finally vanquished “I can’t” from my vocabulary and slowly began to like myself and regained a sense of self-worth.

My thanks goes to Merlene Samuel. For allowing me to pass on the wisdom of “there’s not such thing as I can’t” to my own children and all the kids I work with, and for giving me the self-esteem to become a pretty great grown-up.

PS – I love Canadahelps.org and the charities of my choice would be the Ten Oaks Project (runs summer camps for kids with LGBTQ parents) and Bruce House (offers housing and support for people living with HIV/AIDS).

]]> By: Annie http://danigirl.ca/blog/2008/12/27/a-gift-to-make-the-world-a-better-place/comment-page-1/#comment-58517 Annie Sat, 27 Dec 2008 17:53:26 +0000 http://danigirl.ca/blog/?p=1461#comment-58517 I love Canadahelps.org. I use it every year to make my donations. So easy, one set of receipts via e-mail. Absolutely fabulous! This year, in addition to the universities that I attended, I will be donating to the Jack Newman Clinic, the Green Party, and the Food Bank. I love Canadahelps.org. I use it every year to make my donations. So easy, one set of receipts via e-mail. Absolutely fabulous! This year, in addition to the universities that I attended, I will be donating to the Jack Newman Clinic, the Green Party, and the Food Bank.

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